Finally…You’re out on a date! You want to know what she thinks about you. You want to know the meaning of her smile and gaze. You want to discover a variety of non- verbal clues to find out about her real personality. You want to know what she really thinks about you. You want to read her like a book, so here’s how!
The eyes: Mirrors of the soul
Good signs:
- An intense gaze that happens for more than five seconds doesn’t necessarily mean your date’s into you. This might be a seduction pose to get you to bed with her. Check your date’s pupils while she gazes, dilation indicates arousal.
- If your date insist having eye contact beyond a few seconds, she wants to make you feel nervous or stir up lust or attraction. If you do the same, then the feeling is mutual.
- Eye contact suggests sincerity and truthfulness.
- A quick eyebrow lift is a universal sign that your date is into you.
Bad signs:
- Excessive blinking means your date is lying or uncomfortable.
- If your date’s eyes roll upward, she might be pissed or she probably disagreed with what you are saying or doing.
- If your date avoids eye contact, she might be lying, uncomfortable or just plain shy.
- If your date is blinking slowly, this might mean she is losing interest on the conversation you are having.
The mouth: Conversations, kisses and devious smiles
Good signs:
- If your date has an upturned close-mouth grin, she is shy or insecure but appreciates your company.
- If your date smiles with teeth barely showing, she is enjoying your company.
- If your date licks her lips all the time, you are arousing her.
- If your date laughs easily during conversations or jokes, she is very comfortable and relaxed with you.
- If your date gives a big smile, she admires you a lot.
- If your date gives you a soft peck on the cheek, she likes you and respects you as well.
- If your date gives you a long lusty kiss, she is sexually empowered with thoughts of you.
Bad signs:
- If your date half smiles the whole time, she doesn’t want a serious relationship to happen.
- If your date has a devilish grin, she just wants to bed you.
- If your date barely smiles, she is probably not interested in the conversation you are having.
The hand: Tools of action
Good signs:
- If she extends his palms or if she exposes her wrists, chances are, your date likes you.
- If your date has very animated hands while talking, she is very attentive and expressive.
- If your date holds your hands in public, she is very proud of you.
- If your date folds her hands with thumbs up, she has something positive to say.
- If your date steeples her fingers, she is an intellectual person.
Bad signs:
- If your date folds her hands with thumbs down, she has something negative to say.
- If your date wrings hands constantly, she is insecure.
Others: Non- verbal flirtations
Good signs:
- If your date stands or walks less than an arm’s length away from you, she wants to know you more intimately.
- If your date leans in close, she is trying to get your attention.
Bad signs
- If your date stands with her toes pointing towards each other, she needs reassurance that you like her.
- If your date tugs at her clothing all the time, she is bored.
Each body part suggests a story on the real feelings your date has. Though they are important measures to check on your date, do not rely on them because traditions and conditions play a big part on them as well. Happy reading!
