A New Swing on the Old Summer Fling
Summer lovin’ happens so fast… not anymore. This summer, we’ll make sure you get the hottest fling victim and the most enjoyable relationship. Who knows, what is often known as just a seasonal phase might end up being the love of a lifetime. Why not? Summer is the best season for many, and the most enjoyable too. You get to visit many places, get the chance to meet so many great people, and go through one-of-a-kind experiences. So why blow it away by the time the season ends? Here’s how you find – and keep the perfect summer catch:
Learn water sports – Swimming is fun but everyone’s practically good at that. It’s time to dig for a new challenge. Stop treading the sands in your new bikini. You’ll end up giving all the boys a hard on but no reason to think of you as a keeper. So surf, skim, go wake boarding, dive, and whatnot. This is where you get to meet, strong, focused, fun, and very passionate people who live for a cause. You’ll have even more fun and you’ll get to see another side of you. It’s the perfect opportunity to spot and meet the worthy summer fling and also show you’re no seasonal kitty cat. Obviously athletes are more attractive than beach bystanders.
Ditch the usual party – Oh no, the usual impression of a summer fling is someone who goes to the hottest parties, gets drunk with you and is willing to bed with you any moment after you get a little tipsy. It might be fun, especially because there’s no strings attached, but you’ll never get lucky just the same. Not only will you get a nasty hang over, but a memory of some hunk who probably forgot your name and saw you as another easy bikini babe. Attend those after-event parties instead, where a sports competition is being celebrated, or an environmental movement is the reason for the get together. Again, you’ll meet really special individuals and give your image a bit of worth too. These parties may not be as rowdy but you also have a chance to converse more and really get to know people.
Make real friends – If you create valuable attachments with several people you’ll end up having friends or even flings not just for a season but also throughout the year and after. Befriend sports trainers, beach enthusiasts, and vacationers. If you happen to meet a special someone do not be too desperate to make up something between you two just because you’re afraid the summer might end soon. If he really is into you he’ll see you beyond sun and sea.
Leave a piece of you with them – Whether it’s a summer fling or a good friend that you’ve made, always make an effort to be in contact with them after fun is over. Leave them your card, a small gift, or any piece of remembrance. Summer memories are sometimes so good that many can’t have enough of them. So make your summer extra memorable by giving people the chance to have more with you even after the season’s over.
Juliana Alano
