Heat Up
Are you starting to feel that having sex with your partner is a whole lot of duty? Are you looking for ways to spice up your sex life?
Trying new stuffs bring a sizzle to the romance and can be a good getaway from boring sex life. Here are few tips that would help bring back the steam to your bed:
- If your idea of great sex is at the back of a truck on a remote island, then don’t be too uptight or shy to talk about your desires with your partner. Step away from the comfort zone to the super comfort zone. Plan a sexual encounter where just the two of you can enjoy all day. It doesn’t have to be an exotic five star hotel. It could even be on a sailing ship with stars glistering in the sky.
- Dressing up as something your partner loves makes it more interesting and adventurous. Be creative and try to seduce your partner more. Like in the midst of friends or dinner. This will keep your partner thinking of how he or she can’t wait to strip you to your skin. It keeps sex fresh.
- Excite yourself. Find out what turns you and your partner on. Think about it then do it.
- Don’t just focus on sex all the time, try foreplay and getting allover each other’s body.
- Watching a romantic movie together helps to keep the vibe between you and your partner. Unexpected passionate kisses could also put a flame in your love life. Communicate –have a feeling of mutuality on when and how you want to make love.
- Do not pressure your partner to have sex when he or she is tired. It could make it very boring and a whole lot of work. That is enough to kill the drive.
- Don’t be limited to having one technique. Try new things, fantasize with your partner so you could both fulfill your sexual fantasies. Explore and be playful with your partner
- Sex isn’t just for the bedrooms. Let loose and try different areas like the balcony, kitchen table or even in the bath tub. Don’t let your shyness get in the way of creating fun for you or your partner.
- Spark it up with music, sensual food or even a candle light. How romantic can that be?
Flirt with your partner and throw more light into your world. Keep the flame burning. Be bold and approach new styles. That way, you would keep your partner asking for more everyday (you can finally have your 365-day honeymoon).
Kemi Adeniyan
